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We understand – politics can be a tough conversation with family, but when 20,000+ people have died, including 8,000+ children, we need everybody to talk about it. This guide will help you navigate how you can convince your friends and family to demand a ceasefire too.
While we all support a free Palestine, conversations like long-term peace or discussing the rot causes are tangents that lead nowhere, and as a result, becomes difficult to demand action. For the holidays with family, focus your conversation on a long-term ceasefire to protect Palestinians.
Example: Uncle Joe has strong feelings about the matter, whose fault it is, and more. By going into tangents about the history, or talking about the long-term future of Israel-Palestine, the conversation will never end. By focusing on the ceasefire, Uncle Joe is more likely to understand and agree with the humanitarian argument to not kill children.
This depends on your audience, but approaching the conversation with intention keeps your sights clean. Whether it's signing a petition or simply asking them to reconsider their position, trying to reach this objective will help you guide your own conversation.
Example: We know Uncle Joe supports Israel. Setting our objective for him to rethink his position will help us frame the questions we want to ask, facts we want to share, and more importantly, when to stop. Asking him to boycott American companies immediately will probably be too much for him, and we'll lose his support altogether.
Whether they're vocal about it or not, everyone has an opinion about the ongoing crisis. Listening to them and understanding their current position can help you identify common grounds.
Example: Instead of jumping right in and sharing out thoughts, we listen to Uncle Joe, and we find that his anger is focused on civilian deaths on October 7th. Knowing this, you can gently agree with him, and point out how civilians and children should never be the targets.
As you begin to chime in, build onto their position by providing facts, facts that begin to tip the conversation into just how brutal the crisis has been for Palestinians.
Example: As Uncle Joe agrees with you that civilians shouldn't be killed, remind him that 20,000 civilians have been killed in Gaza, including 8,000 children. If it helps, our latest numbers guide puts some of these numbers into perspective.
With some common understanding, ask your objective. By drawing this conversation out longer, they'll have stronger opinions and potentially find points of disagreement. Often, a shorter conversation is better. Let what you shared sink in with them.
Example: With these atrocities fresh in his mind, it's a good time to ask Uncle Joe to reconsider his support for Israel. By wrapping up the conversation here, this cuts the opportunity for Uncle Joe to find ways to disagree with you.